As a recovering people pleaser, I never really realized how unattractive it was until I did some healing around it. As I healed and up leveled my own behavior, I became witness to this behavior in others. I think what I find most unattractive is the loss of authenticity, along with the subtle manipulation that is usually present. It’s a very distorted view of reality, and it’s being driven by unprocessed emotions. The more time and energy you expend with attempts to control or ‘figure out’ what anyone or anything outside of yourself is thinking, the more time is wasted from your magical self. Remember her? Remember what she loves to do? Remember what she wants to be? If you don’t, I suggest you spend some time with her. Alone.
Archives for November 2016
I used to believe that in order to have great success you had to struggle. A lot, for awhile. I’m happy to report that this is simply untrue. It’s just something that my mind created, and I liked to seek evidence to support. I now choose to seek evidence to support just the opposite. Successful humans, that have a lot of personal freedom, very little struggle, hefty bank accounts, and lives filled with joy. My advice to you today is; ditch the bullshit. Stop feeding it by harping on it, complaining about it, and reinforcing it. There is freedom on the other side.
If you’re anything like me, you are pretty evenly split between left and right brain. This can be challenging at times as an overly analytical songstress. I recently received the most beautiful Sacred Creator Oracle deck from Chris-Ann Donnelly (who is my design hero, and also designed my album “Keeper of Bees”) this is a powerful deck for many reasons, but one very special one for me. It speaks deeply to my inner artist, and keeps my analytical monkey brain in check. I know when I feel out of balance, I can pull a card that completely shifts me back on the road to where I wish to be…
“Sometimes we don’t feed our artist because we see it as a non-productive pursuit. Allow your artist to play with no judgement + no expectation except to enjoy!” -Sacred Creators Oracle