Sugar is a mood killer. A low-vibe soul-sucking dark cloud visitor. A positivity squasher. An energy vampire. Your mean girl BFF that you know you need to get rid of. Your energy stealing, beauty dulling, sweet sweet devil. Sugar is not your friend. She is so sweet and inviting. Charming, and alluring. Her sweetness lures you to her dark side. Where you will crave more and more and feel worse and worse. Try having just a little, you can’t. It’s not her way. She wants to keep you dark and depressed. A siren, who sings only to you (or so you think.) A one-sided relationship that gives just enough, in order to take the rest for herself. We all eat lies when our souls are hungry. One more bite, of this seductive, abusive, relationship. Just one more. She is an expert at meeting her own needs at the expense of yours. She is a charmer, untruthful and manipulative. Devoid of remorse or empathy. Regularly provokes you, and then blames you for falling for it. She makes you feel guilty, and question your own sanity. You are unhappy in this relationship, yet you fear losing it. She is trying to isolate you. I didn’t think that I was in an abusive relationship, I was a strong, educated, independent woman. I would NEVER stay in an abusive relationship, so obviously, I wasn’t in one. Only I was, her name was sugar.